A Thoughtful Life

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A quick look on any magazine rack, book shelf, or web search will reveal an abundance of resources for improving your life.  As well meaning, and no doubt, well-informed, the  authors of these lists may be, the perpetual popularity of these self-help guides suggest that they may not be all that, well, helpful. 

The temptation to follow trendy or simplistic advice is great.  Especially when it promises 3 (or 4, or 5) EASY…  We all like easy.  simple.  quick.   Now.

But one of my favorite verses in the Bible, Romans 12:2, tells us that real change isn’t a fad and that a better life begins with a thoughtful life:

 “Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think.  Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.” (NLT)

So, what is a thoughtful life?

A thoughtful life is discerning.  Spending time in God’s word, in prayer, and in the company of maturing believers helps rid our minds of distorted thoughts, false beliefs and ungodly attitudes.  We are then in a better position to evaluate the truth of new information, rather than jump on the latest self-help formula.

   

A thoughtful life is intentional.  Studies show that purposeful activity is an essential factor in preventing depression and gives our lives meaning.  We were created for a purpose, and God empowers us to fulfill His plan for our lives.  Goals are a good thing.

A thoughtful life is a process.  Learning to apply truth and how to move in the right direction takes time, and often the support of someone who can guide and encourage you. Sometimes, depending on the issues, that process can be more challenging, and you may want the help of a professional counselor.  Whoever you choose, make sure their approach supports the beliefs you value most.

If you are looking for someone to help you develop a thoughtful approach to life, I’d love to talk to you.